Hacked!

Well, that was fun.

All my Dreamhost-based sites have been hacked and defaced by Chinese hackers, apparently to send spam and to use as a reference source for phishing attempts. All but the main site have been taken offline while we harden the site and do some security upgrades. Not sure how they got in; perhaps a compromised password? Anyway, I think the problem has been cleared up. Watch this space for more details.

6月4日,天安门广场大屠杀

6月4日,天安門廣場大屠殺

Moving the boat

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I’m moving to a new slip tomorrow.  Should be interesting without a working motor.  I need to call BoatUS and see if they’ll drag her over to the new dock.

15 Simple Ways to Overcome Anger

Courtesy of ThinkSimpleNow.com

Can you recall the last time you were really angry at someone? So much so that you were physically shaken just at the thought of them? Rarely does this feeling of anger help us in getting what we want. Often, it will work against us, resulting in more pain, unnecessarily.

Even the most gentle of personalities can temporarily turn into a vindictive rascal, if pushed far enough.

A friend of mine is going through a divorce with a spouse who is unreasonably prolonging the process. He’s sad, hurt, upset, frustrated and very, very angry. Words of anger and hatred spout out of his – otherwise polite and thoughtful – mouth. He was no longer his authentic and peaceful self. And he didn’t like who he was becoming.

Through helping him come to a place of understanding and forgiveness of his ex-spouse with love, compassion and humility (we had to dig deep), I realized that the same tools can be used in dealing with other negative emotions.

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